There is hardly any marriage without some minor or repetitive quarrels, so there are some quarrels that are popular among most Egyptian couples, such as "choking house money" or "family visits" and "I'm not afraid I'm married"!
These "snobs" and others are the most frequent among different couples not only locally or Arab, but globally, as the global indicators indicate that there are 10 reasons / things are at the forefront of the most marital quarrels are:
1. Financial matters (household expenses - personal expenses).
2. Sex (differences in sexual desire between the partners - sexual dissatisfaction - not giving sexual relationship priority ... etc.)
3. Breeding of children (the method of formation - balance in their responsibility - defining roles with regard to their upbringing).
4. Relationship with the partner family (Hamo, Hama, brothers and sisters of the husband).
5. Home based business (housekeeping).
6. Social media (what is published from the details of private life - interaction with others / others - the amount of time you consume).
7. Leisure time and degree of correlation (the amount of time they spend together - the degree of commitment to the relationship and the joint activities - the personal space of each party).
8. The balance between working and personal life (how long does the partner spend time working - setting priorities between the two sides).
9. Differences of personal and religious beliefs (personal freedoms - religious rites).
10.To consume alcohol and drugs.
In fact, despite the prevalence of the quarrels mentioned above, however, psychologists pointed out that the real reason behind and other problems and marital wrangling of all kinds, is the existence of "some unmet human needs," according to an article published in the journal "Psychology Today" "The article identified 5 types of unmet needs as follows:
1. The need for coherence: The need for communication and interdependence is one of the basic human needs in general, especially with the partner of life, and stems from a feeling of safety and satisfaction.
2. The feeling of acceptance: from the other party continuously or in other words "unconditional love". This does not mean that you accept or agree to all the partner's actions, but always accept his / her advantages and / or disadvantages.
3. Sense of attractiveness and appreciation: the partner and his constant admiration, not only acceptance of his partner.
4. Freedom of will: and the freedom to make decisions. This does not mean that each party acts as it wishes in isolation, but neither of them feels that it has to accept the choices of the other party and is subject to its consequences all the time, regardless of its wishes and free will.
5. Self-realization: Everyone needs a sense of personal success, according to the criteria and the reasons that lead to it. The absence of this leads to frustration and failure and is reflected in the relationship of one to all the surroundings, including his partner.
These "snobs" and others are the most frequent among different couples not only locally or Arab, but globally, as the global indicators indicate that there are 10 reasons / things are at the forefront of the most marital quarrels are:
1. Financial matters (household expenses - personal expenses).
2. Sex (differences in sexual desire between the partners - sexual dissatisfaction - not giving sexual relationship priority ... etc.)
3. Breeding of children (the method of formation - balance in their responsibility - defining roles with regard to their upbringing).
4. Relationship with the partner family (Hamo, Hama, brothers and sisters of the husband).
5. Home based business (housekeeping).
6. Social media (what is published from the details of private life - interaction with others / others - the amount of time you consume).
7. Leisure time and degree of correlation (the amount of time they spend together - the degree of commitment to the relationship and the joint activities - the personal space of each party).
8. The balance between working and personal life (how long does the partner spend time working - setting priorities between the two sides).
9. Differences of personal and religious beliefs (personal freedoms - religious rites).
10.To consume alcohol and drugs.
In fact, despite the prevalence of the quarrels mentioned above, however, psychologists pointed out that the real reason behind and other problems and marital wrangling of all kinds, is the existence of "some unmet human needs," according to an article published in the journal "Psychology Today" "The article identified 5 types of unmet needs as follows:
1. The need for coherence: The need for communication and interdependence is one of the basic human needs in general, especially with the partner of life, and stems from a feeling of safety and satisfaction.
2. The feeling of acceptance: from the other party continuously or in other words "unconditional love". This does not mean that you accept or agree to all the partner's actions, but always accept his / her advantages and / or disadvantages.
3. Sense of attractiveness and appreciation: the partner and his constant admiration, not only acceptance of his partner.
4. Freedom of will: and the freedom to make decisions. This does not mean that each party acts as it wishes in isolation, but neither of them feels that it has to accept the choices of the other party and is subject to its consequences all the time, regardless of its wishes and free will.
5. Self-realization: Everyone needs a sense of personal success, according to the criteria and the reasons that lead to it. The absence of this leads to frustration and failure and is reflected in the relationship of one to all the surroundings, including his partner.
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